Coaching Model: Becoming Ourselves

A Coaching Model Created by Julian Wenger
(Empowerment and Identity Coach, CANADA)

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Becoming You

You know that there is more that you’re called to. More than you’re capable of in your life. But something is stopping you from creating, from momentum building, or from REALLY believing. Something is getting in the way.

Guess what. It’s you.

Your stories, your fears, your patterns that lie below the surface. I get it! I’ve been there. Pushing to be enough… do enough… but feeling stuck.

Feeling like you see potential, but don’t know how to execute on it.

Wanting to create more impact and to feel more fulfilled, but not being sure how to get there or what that might look like.

Becoming Ourselves is a journey curated for impact-driven and heart-led humans (like you) that aren’t willing to settle. Who understands that the ONLY way to the next level of growth, connection, success, security, creation, vision, execution, fulfillment, and expansion is found through showing up and doing their OWN WORK.

Your life is a direct reflection of you as a whole and integrated person. There isn’t a difference between you at work than at home than with your friends. I’m calling bullshit on that right now. You may try to pretend otherwise, but how you are in one area is impacting all the other spaces – because you are ONE PERSON.

You exist beyond the roles you hold and the checklists that come with them. Your identity exists beyond the titles.​

If you’re ready for a life that you’re excited to get up and live; One where you stand in your own power, are clear on your purpose, and get to experience a passion for life that only exists when power and purpose align; then it’s time for your next expansion, and time for your Becoming Ourselves journey to begin!

Let’s Get Specific on What We are Doing Here;

The Who

Since it’s YOU that’s getting in your way, we’re going to get real clear on whom the F you are.

The Why

This is the motivator – what drives you? What lights you up? What fires you up? What is your purpose, and what is the impact you’re called to make?

The How

How are you getting in your own way? Stopping yourself? Subconsciously sabotaging?

The Stop It

The first three are the building blocks. This is the launch. It’s blending new awareness with rooting out stories that don’t support you. It’s the shift through the “mud” so you can SHOW UP and start creating!

Believe Me, I’ve Been There

With the outward success, the multiple 6-figure businesses, the husband and 3 kids, the volunteer commitments, the friends… everything looking amazing from the outside, but totally burnt out and unfulfilled in reality.

Asking, “Is this all there is?” It’s not! ​This is where “Becoming Ourselves” comes into play. As I started to do MY work, I began to embrace who I am beyond the roles. I got clear on what my “superpowers” and talents are. I began to ask what living my most powerful, purposeful, and passionate life looks like.

I’ve walked the walk that’s in front of you. I left behind a 10-year business that others dream of building. I’ve honoured my purpose. I’ve stepped through the fear to coach, speak, podcast, and train full-time. I’ve found harmony with my family that I didn’t have before. I’m excited EVERY DAY about what’s next, the work I do, and the people I co-create impact with. This is possible for you too.

An expansion. A coming home. It’s time to live your most powerful, purposeful, and passionate life!

This is for you if:

  • You’re not even sure what you want any more, but this ain’t it
  • It feels like life has stolen your power, and you’re waking up to groundhog day on repeat
  • You keep having “someday I will” conversations
  • You get sidetracked every time you go to execute what you do want
  • You’re overwhelmed, tired, and are convinced you don’t have the capacity right now to create a life that serves you better

Identity Coaching Model Julian Wenger

The Model

Essence > Awareness > Extraction > Expansion

  1. Essence: One of the missing pieces I hear about the most is clarity on “Who am I?” What IS beyond all the roles and titles and checklists? How are you wired? What are your superpowers? ​We work together, in a combination of community and 1-on-1 time, to create this clarity, to uncover it. Using a combination of self-awareness and self-compassion, rooted in Ennea gram as a personality discovery system, we get to the core of who you are and what your purpose is
  2. Awareness: Developing an awareness of whom you provide some incredible insights into your:​go-to patterns subconscious defence mechanisms and behaviours core needs and desires These underscore ALL the getting in your own way that’s keeping you small and fuelling the self-sabotage that is showing up for you.
  3. Extraction: This is the real work. Paying attention to those patterns and getting curious about them. Uncovering what you’re telling yourself and looking at questions like:​ ”Is it true?”, “Is it realistic?” “What if it is not?” And then to start replacing those stories you’ve attached to with something that will serve and empower you.​ This is the getting out of your own way.
  4. Expansion: Some might call this a results phase, but expansion is continually available to us. Our “work” is in layers. So instead of seeing this as an end game, I see this as an indication that you’re on the path. That you’re moving towards becoming more yourself, to owning your power and purpose. That you’re creating a life you’re passionate about

What You Can Expect:

I’m a coach that will love you, believe in you, and cheerlead for your growth. I will get fired up. I will call you on your shit when I see it. I will swear sometimes. I will be vulnerable and transparent. I will guide you through self-discovery, and I will leverage my own journey for yours. I will create and hold space for you to be all of you, your whole self, without judgment. I believe in community. I believe in radical self-responsibility. I believe in compassion and grace. I believe in boundaries and our personal power. I believe in equality and equity. I believe that my voice and my privilege are given to me so I can be a voice for those who don’t have one. I believe in being blessed to be a blessing. I believe we are powerful and full of fire. I believe in love first, always.

What Not to Expect:

“Should-ing” and shaming: The key to our work is maintaining a shame-free environment. A safe space and secure base from which you can explore YOU and your perceptions of the world.

​​Accountability “Babysitting”: Ultimately the work you do in this space is up to you. I’ll meet you halfway, but if you’re looking for coaching that is going to chase you to show up for yourself, this isn’t it. Don’t get me wrong, I’ll call you on your shit from love, but I won’t “mom” you

It’s time to live the life you are called to!

To Live with Purpose!

Get clear on what drives you and the impact you’re called to create to help you step past overwhelm and fear and step into creating the life you dream about.

To Live with Passion!

Not enough and hiding stop here. Once you discover what fires you up, there is no more playing small. Let us go all in!

To Live with Power!

Get out of your own way and break up with shame. It’s time to live confidently and own the superpowers and gifts that are inside you already! Becoming ourselves is about getting to the core of our identity. Who are we outside the “boxes” in our lives? Who are we outside our roles, other people’s expectations of us, and the ever-growing checklists? This journey is about taking your power back and owning the trajectory of your life. When you choose to show up for yourself, everything changes


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